If it’s not clear by nearly every other page at the Peephole, I love music. I especially love experiencing music in live settings with other folks around. While I’m not really an extrovert and don’t really love crowds, I love the excitement and buzz that’s in the air at a concert.
The mother of all concerts, though, may become a reality for me in a few weeks. That’s right … the Eagles concert that I’ve mentioned no less than half a dozen times! The catch is that I might be going by myself, which should prove to be interesting. I’ve never gone to a concert alone, but single tickets are selling for around $100, where sets of two tickets jump up to around $400. It’s something I’m still contemplating, but I’m very definitely leaning towards going for it.
At any rate, that got me to thinking to all of the concerts and other live performances I’ve seen, and I thought it might be fun to compile a list of some top moments from those experiences.
So here, in quite specific order, are my Top 10 Live Music Moments of all time!!
10. Highway 101 – “Whiskey, If You Were a Woman” (1988)
My first concert ever was Holly Dunn & Highway 101 at Stone Mountain, Georgia. I was somewhere in the range of 7 to 8 years old, and I very distinctly recall dancing and singing (screaming) the lyrics to “Whiskey, If You Were a Woman” as I stood by the blanket my family was spread out on. I had no idea what I was talking about when I sang (screamed) “Whiskey, if you were a woman, I’d fight you and I’d win.” Nope. No clue. I knew what whiskey was (kind of). I knew what women were (Like, my mom). But I sure thought I meant every word to that song when I was singing it.
9. Garth Brooks – “We Shall Be Free” (2007)
Last fall, Garth Brooks created a media frenzy when he announced that he would be coming out of retirement for one concert for one night in one city. That city ended up being Kansas City, and I ended up getting tickets thanks to the fast thinking of one of my friends. The whole craziness around the concert was cool enough, but there was a specific moment in the show that was just sort of awe-inspiring. We had floor seats that were just about in the middle of the floor of the Sprint Center. In the middle of “We Shall Be Free,” I turned a full circle and looked up and around me. A full 20,000 people were singing along with the song, and I realized that at that moment, those people believed in every word of that song. It sounds cheesy to say now, but it really was an amazing feeling and an amazing moment to be a part of.
8. Tim McGraw / Kenny Chesney – Or Not (2001)
Back in 2001, I got tickets to go see Tim McGraw & Kenny Chesney when they had a tour stop in Houston. I went down to Houston with Justin, my boyfriend at the time, and my parents, and we spent a beautiful, sunny day shopping, eating, and playing in Houston. As we headed over toward the concert, we noticed a few clouds rolling in but didn’t think much of it. No less then 15 minutes later, we were drenched and cowering under blankets as lightning crashed & thunder boomed around us. We sat in the storm – literally in the open, just getting drenched – for about an hour before we decided to call it done and head home. We listened the concert, which ended up starting about half an hour after we left, on the radio for part the drive home.
7. Tiffany – I Think … No, I Know We’re Alone Now (2001)
This is the second of two concerts that made the list without a chord of music ever being played. I went to school for a year at Stephen F. Austin State University, where I was sure to enroll in at least one class with Derick each semester. One semester, we noticed fliers up around campus that said Tiffany (“Yes, THAT Tiffany,” as the fliers said) would be performing on campus one afternoon. Derick & I decided to skip Dr. Bob’s media class that we had together, and go see Tiffany. About two dozen – oh yeah, two dozen – other folks thought the novelty of it would be worth it as well, and we all gathered down by the Ag Pond to see the one-hit wonder. It started to sprinkle a bit, and then turned to a nice little rain … and that crazy chick never got off the bus. Seriously. Tiffany thought she was too good for a little rain. We stood in the rain to hear her bubble gum pop crap music, and we wanted to hear it. But no. She was a diva, and couldn’t make it off the bus. Our solution? Still skip class, and go to IHOP instead! It was a good day, Tiffany or no Tiffany.
6. Tootsie’s Orchid Lounge – “You Never Even Call Me By My Name” (2005)
Part of my former job as a travel writer for a vacation company was to go on vacation and write about the experience from a tourist’s perspective. One such trip took me & a co-worker to Nashville, Tennessee. I’d always wanted to visit Nashville, so I was absolutely thrilled about the chance. One evening, after eating at a local barbecue place about two feet from the back door of the Ryman Auditorium, we headed down to Tootsie’s Orchid Lounge. (If you know anything about the history of Nashville & country music, you know Tootsie’s). Tootsie’s is a crammed, tiny little joint, and that night – like every night – it was literally PACKED with people. It’s really quite difficult to move at all. Anyway, a few minutes after we arrived, the band that was playing the downstairs room started into David Allen Coe’s “You Never Even Call Me By My Name.” It’s the quintessential country sing-a-long song, so I joined in with the dozens of folks crammed into this tiny piece of purple history as we sang every word. I’ve never felt more connected to a hundred drunk strangers in my life.
5. Ronnie Milsap at the Grand Ole Opry (2006)
After my initial work-related trip to Nashville, I decided to take my parents back to Music City for a personal vacation. They had never been themselves, and I knew they would absolutely love it. My parents both grew up working on farms, listening to the Opry, living that almost metaphorical rural life that we hear about. I knew seeing a show at the Grand Ole Opry would be something special for both of them, and I couldn’t wait to take them. We had a great lineup of performers the night we were there, including some older, legendary artists and some newer superstars. But when Ronnie Milsap walked out on stage, my mom literally started crying. I joke with them now that I’m going to write a country song called “Momma Cried at the Opry,” but seeing what an experience it was for them to be sitting at the Opry, listening to the music they have been listening to their entire lives was quite a treat for me.
4. Dierks Bentley and the Little White Tank Top Army – (2006)
Most of my friends don’t share my taste in music, so when a couple agreed to go see Dierks Bentley with me, I was elated. I could probably create a top 25 moments from that concert to their own list, but if I had to pick just one top moment, it would be the shout-out we got from Dierks himself. That’s right. Cool kids that we were, we made posters that signified us as cadets in the Little White Tank Top Army, and Dierks saw them once we got our skinny girl up onto the shoulders of our big guy with one of the posters. If I remember correctly, our shout-out came in response to our “Domestic, Light and Hot” poster as he was singing “Domestic, Light and Cold.” Saaaaa-weeeeet!!
3. Sugarland – Cheap Casinos, Shadows on the Wall, & Wanting To (2007)
Just an FYI, if you ever decide to see a concert at Buffalo Run Casino in Miami, Oklahoma, think twice. The concert venue is seriously, seriously lacking, and if you’re less than 6’0″ tall, don’t expect to see much. Early last year, my special someone and I went to see Sugarland at Buffalo Run. We have someone differing tastes in music, but Sugarland is one place where we seem to come together musically, and “Want To” has always sort of been our song … so naturally, we decided to go see them. Like I said, the venue sucked. I’m not quite 5’4″, so I couldn’t see a thing but the shadows of Jennifer & Christian on the wall. Still, there’s definitely something special about hearing “your song” performed live while you’re singing along and in the arms of someone you care about, and despite the crappy facilities, it was one of the most memorable concerts as a whole I’ve ever been to.
2. Cross Canadian Ragweed / Dierks Bentley / Wade Bowen … Mudfest (2007)
So I know it sounds like all of my concert moments contain rain … and yeah, I guess a lot of them do. Anyway, last year I went to see Ragweed, Dierks Bentley, and Wade Bowen at an outdoor venue. The concert was on a Friday night following what had been one of the worst weeks of my life, and I had considered not going because of some issues that were going on. I made the right call to go, because it ended up being unbelievably cool. First of all, Ragweed is just amazing live. Any concert that they were a part of would make my top 5 regardless, but add in about two hours of pouring rain before the show on a muddy baseball field, and you’re talking about a good time. I mistakingly wore flip flops to this event, and within no time they had quite literally been sucked into the mud pit that was the “VIP” area at the edge of the stage, never to be seen again. The mud at this show was unbelievable – think the “new” Woodstock, but with drunk rednecks instead of stoned hippies & grunge kids. I was standing barefoot, literally up to my knees in mud about six feet from the stage, and enjoying what was one of the best live shows I’ve ever seen. Unforgettable. (Also, my car never forgot the amount of mud I took into it afterwards … )
1. Pat Green (2006)
Rivaled only by the Eagles, Pat Green is my favorite artist of all time. When I lived in Texas, I had the chance to see him once, but the jerks I worked with wouldn’t cover for me, so I missed the show. Then I moved to Missouri, and unless you head up to St. Louis or Kansas City, it’s close to impossible to see any decent shows. So when I found out that Pat Green was going to be playing in Springfield, I quite literally cried. I also quite literally immediately called my friends and began enacting a plan to get to the show. I got Meet & Greet passes, two of my friends took a 9 hour round trip journey to get here, and we crammed into one of Springfield’s little downtown bars for the show that I had been dreaming about for years. We met Pat, which was awesome, and the show was fantastic, as I knew it would be. But the coolest thing was my friends’ and their willingness to go along with me to a concert that they really had little interest in … of course, the presence of alcohol always seems to help persuade them, but still, it’s something I’ll always be grateful to them for.
And here are a few honorable mentions that deserve to be remembered as well:
- Seeing Confederate Railroad perform at the Angelina County Fair … OK, my upbringing sounds so much more hillbilly than it really was, I swear! (1996)
- Falling asleep in the bleachers between the Sikeston Jaycees Rodeo & the concert featuring Emerson Drive and Joe Nichols – it was something crazy, like two hours. (2004)
- Asking who Howie Day was when my friends were asking who Jimmy Wayne was at the May Day concert my last semester of college (2004)
- Quite literally losing my pants after a night of live music on Dickson Street in Fayetteville, AR (2005)
- Being one of the youngest people in the crowd to see Ricky Skaggs (2008)
- Realizing that, oh yes, Josh Turner is the sexiest man alive (2008)
- Laughing with my brother about the bored 9-year-old fiddle player in a local bluegrass band (2008)
- Getting hit on by very scary, very old men on Commercial Street while watching a friend’s band at Lindbergh’s (2008)